How can i find out if he likes me?

I was in a dance program at a local community arts center, there werent boys in class. So whenever we’d go out on break, all the girls in my class would be all over the musicians that would come out class. There was one boy in the class that i liked alot, but couldnt talk to him much because all the other girls were on him.
The program finished so I didnt get to make a move on him or anything. But then we started talking a lot on online. He seems to like talking to me as much i like talking to him, &now hes the first one to send an IM when were both on. We have aLOT in common, a lot more than i expected. Hes really nice, & is always complementing me. Yesterday i told him that ive always thought he was cute, &he got all shy and told me that he thinks im a cutie as well. But then i had to sign off . I dont know if hes interested in me as a friend or more than a friend. He goes to an all boys school but hes always around really pretty girls, & i dont think i can compete w/ them =[[

The best way to find out the answer to any question relating to another person’s feelings is to ask that person. You are not always guaranteed a truthful answer, but you will at least get the answer they want you to have, or the one they think you want to hear. Don’t fall into the trap of having a friend ask for you, or of trying to devise some type of test. If you cannot ask this guy if he likes you, then you need to ask your question of yourself. However, he may not know if he likes you, and he may need to get to know you better, before he can answer the question honestly.

In the end, it really doesn’t matter whether or not this guy likes you. Keep your communications with him open, which also means you must listen to what he says, and be honest with him at all times. In due time, he will tell you, in his own way, if he likes you or not. When he does, know that no matter what he relates, you will have both become enriched by the experiences you’ve shared until that time. And, if you both decide to continue your relationship further, then it will be a true and pure one, which can be more valuable than any other.

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17 Responses to How can i find out if he likes me?

  1. Uhnonuhmus says:

    ask him
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  2. Sarah says:

    if he said you’re cute, it most likely means he likes you. GO FOR IT DON’T BE A PUSSY
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  3. apollo31 says:

    He likes you and you like him, there. You know if you spend enough time with someone you will begin to have feelings for them that is just how it is no matter who the person is. You have been talking to him online. He has been complementing you and so have you. So just do it.
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  4. Nicole says:

    either asked him out or tell him how u feel but what u told me i think he likes u
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  5. all answers welcome.•'´¸.•&# says:

    ask him if he like you
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  6. clr9798 says:

    ……ask….!
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  7. britty_jane says:

    ask him
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  8. jt says:

    if u want him fight for him. do things the other girls aren’t doing, sneak in the back door so to speak.
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  9. baserunner316 says:

    ask him!
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  10. leslie says:

    ask
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  11. NUK NUK says:

    ask him and see wat he says
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  12. Nancy B says:

    Sounds like you are doing a good job competing with the other girls. It seems like something will come of this soon. But do not hang around and wait for him to be online. Go out and enjoy yourself.
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  13. rhcp rules says:

    go for it.
    you’ll never know until you try.
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  14. mattskitles says:

    ask him out.
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  15. miss_fanta0507 says:

    Go GIRL!!! Seems he likes you quite alot! Still try talking smoothly about relationships wit him to see if he’s really interested.
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  16. Magret R says:

    omg he so likes you wow and if your worried about the other girls being prettier then you and he still acts like you say he does um he is thinking you are mush realer then most girls like you don’t care what other people think so don’t worry about it if i was in your place i would so ask him out and if you want him to ask you out instead i would put out lots of strong signals that you want him to like say this guy asked me out today and he was cute but i said no ..something like that i hope i helped
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  17. rxblair says:

    The best way to find out the answer to any question relating to another person’s feelings is to ask that person. You are not always guaranteed a truthful answer, but you will at least get the answer they want you to have, or the one they think you want to hear. Don’t fall into the trap of having a friend ask for you, or of trying to devise some type of test. If you cannot ask this guy if he likes you, then you need to ask your question of yourself. However, he may not know if he likes you, and he may need to get to know you better, before he can answer the question honestly.

    In the end, it really doesn’t matter whether or not this guy likes you. Keep your communications with him open, which also means you must listen to what he says, and be honest with him at all times. In due time, he will tell you, in his own way, if he likes you or not. When he does, know that no matter what he relates, you will have both become enriched by the experiences you’ve shared until that time. And, if you both decide to continue your relationship further, then it will be a true and pure one, which can be more valuable than any other.
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